Energy Healing and attracting a love interest.

Are you still longing for a romantic partner to come into your life?

Here’s how energy healing & trauma clearing can help you receive the love of your life.

You see that attractive person across a room.

What comes alive in your body and energy field?

Do you sink deeper into your body, and therefore down into your root chakra and 2nd chakra in your pelvis with the energy statement, “I’m here. I’m safe. I’m available. I’m interested in allowing our energies to connect and check one another out.” 

Does your heart open with warmth? 

Does it lock down with fear of rejection?

Does all of this draw the other person in?

They can sense that you are able to stay present and available.

You are ready to receive connection and contact.

You are ‘embodied’. 

Your body and energy field are giving off the message, “I can handle connection and stay present. My heart is open.”

Or, do you jump out of your body and become giddy with butterflies in your stomach (3rd chakra is getting nervous about connection).

Now you have left your grounding in your pelvis and legs (1st and 2nd chakra).

Maybe you can flirt and laugh here, but only from the waist up energetically.

Now you are giving off the message, “I’m cute, but I can’t really receive you.”

Is there a feeling that if the love interest comes closer you might go into flight and leave your body more?

Are you giving off, ‘come here / go away’ messages?

And why might this be?

You want to receive a partner into your life, but something is happening in the subtle dynamics of the messages you are giving off.

There are probably some old wounds around love being triggered.

Does this dynamic sound or feel familiar to you? Or do you notice something else going on when you truly pay attention to what is happening inside. Hit reply and let me know!

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If we work together, I will guide you to track back to what happened inside when you first became attracted to a love interest. 

Was it in High School? Earlier? Later?

Close your eyes and go to a memory image of that moment. Take your time to see where your inner image leads you. What is happening in your body?

As we work, I am observing what is happening in your energy field.

Next we go back to your original intimate attachment bond. Was that with mom? Most likely. Or who was your mother figure as an infant?

Are there moments where you were not sure she would come as a baby or toddler? Were you separated from her at birth?

Did you long to be picked up and held?

Did unconscious beliefs begin to be laid down like:

“I will believe it’s not ok to ask to be held.”

or

“If I take care of mom’s needs and emotions, maybe she will be more available to take care of me.”

I can read these subtle shifts of energy, these limiting beliefs and agreements in your field of consciousness.

I will help you find just the right words that name these agreements and decisions you made deep down inside to make the unconscious decision or agreement with yourself, conscious.

Together, we are untangling what really goes on for you with intimacy and connection.

In a 1.5 hour healing sessions, I may also do direct energy healing work with your relational cords. These are cords of light and consciousness that connect from your chakras to everyone you are in relationship with.

As we work with the cords in your heart, throat, or any of your 7 energy centres you may need help to:

➡️  feel more securely attached to mom (or others);

➡️ disentangle from difficult connections;

➡️ sink your own cords more deeply into the centre of your own chakras, into your own soul essence, so you are secure in yourself. These relational cords, which connect deep into your own soul essence and inner divinity are called your ‘Soul Cords’.

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Here is an exercise for you to explore your connection with a “Love Interest”.

This process comes from my training as a Family Constellations facilitator.

You will “set up” your own constellation process.

• The ‘star’ of the show is you! You will ‘represent’ yourself in this constellation.

• Now choose an object, pillow, sheet of paper, sticky note, to ‘represent’ a ‘love interest’ or ‘soul mate’, ‘partner’. If there is an actual person you are courting, you can imagine it is that person or even write their name on the paper or sticky note.

• If there is no one right now, just name this representative ‘LOVE INTEREST’.

• Place the representing object or paper for LOVE INTEREST on the floor where you sense, at a gut and body level, they should be.

• Sense where you stand in relation to your Love Interest. Move around the room until it feels true.

• How close does your body want to stand to them? How far?

• Do you face them or turn away?

• What is a comfortable distance where you can be fully in your body with no fear?

• Now…if you take a micro step closer, does anything change in your body? Really tune in. Can you even step closer or is your impulse to turn away, or move away?

• What comes up for you?

• It is valuable to do this exercise and allow all the time needed for anything to bubble up from within your body and really be felt. Keep your head out of it. Your body knows.

• By doing so, you are triggering any emotional blocks or trauma blocks held within that still come between you and intimacy, allowing them to animate and be processed.

Did you try it? I would love to hear what you discovered. 

Go to the Contact page and share away!

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