Are you worried about your children?
Are there behaviors and struggles you see they have, you sense are connected to family patterns you also feel entangled with?
Do you worry that your children are carrying down family dysfunction and pain that you have not yet been able to heal?
Could there be something more going on underneath your child’s behaviour that is not so obvious?
Have you read parenting books, tried behavioural interventions, and sought help from family therapists and parenting coaches?
What if the symptom you see in your child’s health, emotional wellness, social struggles or success in life, is pointing to generational trauma they are carrying for the family, out of the unconscious loyalty, love and the need to belong we all have as human beings belonging to human families?
Join us for this class where you will learn more about how unresolved trauma in your family system, or even what is not at peace within you, or between you and your child’s other parent, can show up in the next generation.
Through theoretical learning and experiential healing work using the “Family Constellations” process, you can begin to find a way to UNBURDEN YOUR CHILDREN, and yourself.
You too, were also once a child. We will also look at what burdens you unconsciously may have taken on as a child, that call for healing.
In this class, I will teach you how to step directly into the energy field of your family system to reveal hidden dynamics, discharge bound trauma energy in the family system, and move toward peace and harmony.
This is deep work. This is effective work.
Topics we will explore together:
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What did you carry as a child? Do you still carry it?
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Adoption. How to work with what they carry from their birth parents.
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What might your children carry for you, their other parent or what is unresolved between mom and dad?
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Divorce and co-parenting.
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Spheres of influence: are they in mom or dad’s ‘sphere’?
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Unconscious loyalties, their cost and how to resolve them.
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The ‘crazy love’ of children that prompts them to try to carry burdens for their parents.
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Is your child carrying the fate of someone in the family system who has been forgotten?
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The parentified child and Orders of Love
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Illness in children and the unseen generational trauma it may point to.
How do we save our children from carrying generational trauma?
We do the work.
In this class, you will have a chance to take a soul-level look to see what is happening on a deeper level.
I will show you how we can unpack the energies held in your family system--so that what you carry can be brought to peace, and does not have to be carried by your children.
A profound evening of releasing and reclaiming parts of myself.
Thank you again for last night’s experience — it’s one that I will forever cherish and am still processing.
Your words at the beginning — about doing all the personal development work, reading the books, doing “all the things,” yet still feeling stuck — resonated so deeply. I probably own every personal development book out there—some that I’ve really struggled to get through—and I’m realizing now it’s because that wasn’t the kind of work I truly needed.
The biggest takeaway for me was the power of release and recognition of what isn’t mine to carry--the grief we worked through — grief that wasn’t mine to hold.
When I put my son Noah to bed last night, I said, “Let’s take five deep breaths and let go of things that are no longer serving us.” He asked, “What does that mean?” and I told him, “It means letting go of things that aren’t yours.” We took our breaths together, and then he brought his thumb to each finger and said, “Peace begins with me.” It was such a perfect, grounding moment — like everything I had experienced earlier was coming full circle through him.
Jodi Lange
Mom & Nurse
Stratford, Ontario
What we will do together in class:
➡️ Arrive and rest into our bodies to ground.
➡️ Introductions and intention sharing.
➡️ Learning. How does generational trauma express itself differently through our children?
➡️ Short healing demonstration of how I assist you to step directly into your family energy field to gain deeper soul-level insights into what your children may be resonating with.
➡️ Optional breakout groups where each participant to can step into what was demonstrated and make a healing shift.
➡️ *Break*
➡️ 2-3 full group Family Constellations processes to step into the energy field of different participant's family systems to locate and lighten the burden of generational trauma.
I'm not ready! Psst...watch Another Self on Netflix. It's all about inherited family trauma...and it's a great chick flick...where the men do the work too!
Will you join us?
Unburdening Our Children
Saturday, November 15, 2025
11am-3pm EST
$167 CAD
This class won't be offered again until November 2025.
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